04.23 | can we actually take back earth day? Like many other "movements" out there (PRIDE, International Women's Day), this one has been taken over by the very corporations with their boot on the neck of environmental activists.
04.16 | confronting the need for safety with love instead of fear Last weekend I watched the new A24 + Michelle Yeoh film "Everything Everywhere All At Once" - one of the first films in years that left me breathless in awe at the end of it.
04.09 | what is happening in shanghai right now? Good lord Shanghai. What a fucking mess. In case you don’t have half your friend base still living in that city, here’s what’s been going on...
04.02 | loneliness, warhol, & nyc Part memoir of post-breakup wanderings by an expat transplant, part New York City art history reflection, "The Lonely City" by Olivia Laing felt very... I don't know, "exactly this moment" for me.
03.26 | being angry and a woman (happy #whm) What made me happy was that I had finally gotten to a position where I had all the power over myself. That even though the situation sucked, I didn't have to acquiesce gently or pretend I was into it.
03.16 | setting reminders that things are ok There are many other things I want to start, restart, or optimize, but I don't need to do them all at once - nay, they are impossible to do them all at once - and even if I didn't do any of them, I don't need to beat myself up about it.
03.03 | a brain dump about ukraine Recently, a surprising number of people have asked my opinion on what's China's deal with this whole fiasco.
02.24 | dream states It turns out that state between sleep and awake actually has a name: hypnagogia.
02.12 | finding a place was just step one of the journey If you thought the process of house hunting was exhausting, it turns out that the process of furnishing an entirely empty apartment, all alone, is even more so.
02.02 | happy year of the tiger Turns out trying to supercharge apartment hunting across three very separate areas in a major cosmopolitan city by fitting all of them into three days actually takes a lot out of you.